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They Showed Up.
But Did They Really?

The surprisingly relatable reason your team is physically present — and mentally somewhere else entirely.

Sound familiar?

Presenteeism: the art of being at work in body while your brain is still arguing with someone from last Tuesday.

You know the look.

It's the employee staring at their screen like it personally offended them. The one who's been "on mute" in every meeting for two weeks — and not because of technical difficulties. The one who keeps refilling their coffee but never actually drinks it.

Their badge scanned. Their name is on the schedule. But somewhere between the parking lot and their desk, the part of them that actually does the work — the focused, present, engaged part — stayed home.

We've all been there, honestly. A difficult conversation at home that didn't get resolved. A personal situation quietly consuming every spare thought. A conflict at work that nobody addressed, so it just... sits there. Simmering.


We've gotten pretty good at spotting it — after the fact.

The signs are almost always there in hindsight. Little things that individually look like a bad day, but together tell a different story.

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The Vacant Stare
Physically at the desk. Eyes on the screen. Mind absolutely nowhere near the building.
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The Permanent Mute
Two weeks of camera off, mic off, one-word answers. Not a tech issue. A "I have nothing left right now" issue.
The Coffee Loop
Third trip to the break room in an hour. Not thirsty. Just needing somewhere to go that isn't their inbox.

The thing is — none of these look like a crisis. That's exactly what makes presenteeism so expensive. It doesn't announce itself. It just quietly costs you, every single day.


Here's the number that should stop you mid-sentence.

10×

Presenteeism costs up to 10 times more than absenteeism — and most organizations never see it coming.

Source: OSHA

The employee who calls in sick costs you a day. You cover it, you move on. The employee who shows up unable to focus? That one costs you far more — in errors, in slow output, in decisions made at half capacity — and you probably didn't even notice it was happening.

The cost of distraction and presenteeism from unaddressed work/life stress runs 10 times higher than absenteeism. The employee who calls in sick costs you a day. The one who shows up unable to focus costs you far more.


The real issue isn't that people are struggling. It's that the moment passes.

Think about when this actually happens. Not on a calm Tuesday at 10 AM when the EAP brochure is right there on the bulletin board. It happens in the middle of a hard week, when everything is already piling up, and one more thing tips the balance.

In that moment, what most people need isn't a referral and a two-week wait. They need someone to talk to right now — before "I'm fine" stops being even remotely true. Before the bad day becomes a bad week. Before the distracted employee becomes the expensive claim.

That window matters. And most of the time, we miss it entirely.


That's the gap Health Karma is built to close.

A real conversation with a master's-level clinician — available 24/7, no appointment, no referral — at the exact moment a personal or workplace issue is taking up more mental real estate than the actual job.

Not next week. Not when someone finally decides to ask for help. Right now, in the moment, when it actually matters.

"I'm fine" isn't a strategy.
In-the-moment support is.

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